The Unexpected

The unexpected can be quite sexy.  In fact just thinking about the possibilities of it can get me..........well, nevermind.  I don't know that I'm wild or succulent enough for that yet.  However, I've started to notice the kind of feelings that the unexpected brings me, both emotionally and physiologically.  And the other day, when something unexpected happened, I found it's sexy.

I work for my mom a couple days a week in her home daycare. (No, this is not sexy).  Both of my children are with me when I go so it's a nice way to spend a couple of days. On a side note, last week both my dad and husband were on spring break because they are  teachers.  My husband works a summer/spring break job so that's where he was most days during his spring break. Anyway, I was sitting at my mom's with the kids in the late afternoon and the door opened.  I expected that it was a daycare parent, but it was my husband instead.  There was something very sexy about him walking through the door...because it was unexpected.  The feelings I got weren't something I experience on a daily basis when he comes home from work.  His entire demeanor seemed different to me too.  It was as though it was my man, but also a different man.  Quite sexy.

Finding the unexpected in all aspects of life is what can really keep me grounded sometimes. My unexpected comes from an email that I wasn't anticipating. Yes, I usually know when someone is going to send me an email because it's a response to something I have sent.  Yet when I receive one that was not expected it's sexy.  Accidents are part of this too.  Have you ever been in public and you feel a hand or elbow graze you?  You expect that it's your significant other, if they are with you, but then find out is was a stranger.  And I'm not talking about the stereotypical bar setting where men take it upon themselves to "accidentally" touch your ass.  This is an innocent accident, but still sexy.

I guess all of life is really unexpected.  We never truly know what and when something will happen.  Being able to find the turn-on that small, unexpected things can give you is what makes it a little more thrilling.  Often times we get stuck in a routine, the grind or expected things in life.  Doing this makes life seem dull or meaningless. Opening up to the way life and it's surprises make you feel will bring color to the dull and significance to the meaningless. I am going to continue to get turned on. I am going to be someone's unexpected.